Life Talk: It’s NOT you, it’s THEM.
A quick breakdown of people not being present around you more and more each day.
It’s NOT you, it’s THEM.
We’re in an epidemic of the majority of people lacking the ability to be present.
I am sure as you’ve gotten older, you’ve found yourself unable to connect personally with many people. You try to click with new people, but it just doesn’t work. You can’t seem to align with many people around you, and new people you meet.
It’s NOT you, it’s THEM.
Many people are consumed only by what concerns themselves, never others. The idea of a great conversation to them, is to talk only about themselves and their life, never even asking you one question about you, how you are doing, how is life, what’s new with you. They do not care.
But consider yourself the lucky one. You have grown and evolved as a human being, allowing you to be selfless, present, and authentic. They’re hundreds of levels behind you, and stuck.
It’s NOT you, it’s THEM.
This journey called life gets a bit more challenging as we get older, but we also get wiser, and more aligned with our true selves by the years. This helps us be empowered and selective of who we let into our circle. The pool of real people these days is very small —— not many are worthy of your beautiful heart and energy. But, that’s okay, because the ones you do keep in your circle are the ones that will always pour into you, just as much as you pour into them. And that is what true loving friendships, relationships, and family should be.